Today, it’s still taboo to say that motherhood isn’t always magical…
The media, the social networks that show us mothers wearing makeup, well-haired, resting, in short, the perfect life all day long. But unfortunately this is not the case for all mothers.
There is so much pressure on our backs, between being a perfect woman, a housewife, having a good job, a good salary, being a good mother... But who defines these points? Who has the right to define us as good or bad in every aspect of life? Person !
Sometimes it's hard, sometimes we break down, but that's normal, we're human.
Society gives us too many “codes” to respect, we have to “appear” perfect to appear normal.
There are many magical and wonderful moments, but often we question our words and our actions, we “compare” ourselves to other mothers just to see if we are like the ones we are constantly shown…
But why do we cry behind a smile? Because sometimes we are tired, exhausted, we lack time for ourselves, work, money, judgments, in short... there can be a lot of reasons, but it's completely normal! Sometimes, just an offer to go eat at a restaurant, take a walk, just a hug, a kind look can be enough.
Don't stay alone mom, talk about it if you need to, but don't forget to surround yourself with good people.